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Bah humbug? No, not really. I met several singles over the holidays who dreaded this time of the year and were happy for a chance at a new beginning. January is the single largest month for new subscriptions to online dating services. When they discussed their frustrations with online dating, I asked why it wasn't working for them.

Their number one reason was FEAR. Yes, fear. Fear has caused many singles to lie about their age to fit into a search. This isn't new. So, when a 59 year old fairly attractive male told me he said he was 55 in his profile and he wasn't planning on changing that number, I asked him, "Will you still be 55 when you are 60?" He had to think about the answer.

Most of us look in the mirror and think we look younger than we are. We see photos on Facebook from high school and college friends and they always appear older than us, or at least we think so.

I continued my discussion with the almost 60-year old man. He was concerned that only older women would write to him. Maybe some will. When I convinced him that he didn't have to go out with every woman who wrote to him, especially those that didn't fit into his search, he eased up for a minute. When I was positive that he wasn't going to tell the truth about his age, I asked him how he'd feel if a woman lied about her age and said she was 5-10 years younger. Although it's a common trend in cyberdating, he said it's a turn-off to him.

Finally, I asked him to make a New Year's resolution to update his profile. He was not going to say he was 59 as fear of turning 60 made him panic. He did reluctantly agree to adding a "disclaimer" in his profile saying that he was really 59 but looked and felt much younger and wanted to fit into a search. I asked him to be honest about his age. He said he'd try it. After all, he hadn't been successful in lying on his online dating profile in the 3 years he has been on multiple Internet dating sites.

It's a New Year. 2009 was difficult for many with the economic turbulence. The desire for singles to couple-up is at an all time high. Wouldn't you want someone to be honest with you from the beginning? New Year's resolutions. Who needs them? We all do, if we want 2010 to be better than 2009.

Make it your New Year's resolution to live your life with authenticity -Online, offline, and where ever you may roam.

Dating Guide 101:

In a series of dating tips, US first Lady Michelle Obama has urged women to look beyond good looks and settle for a man with a good soul. “Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long and then it’s, “Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women - don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul,” said Michelle, who is married to President Barack Obama for the past 17 years. The 45-year-old mother of two warned women against marrying “somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole”, Glamour magazine reported. She also spoke of the qualities which drew her towards her husband. The couple, who have two daughters, met in 1989 while working in her native Chicago at a law firm. “He was always special, you know. And not special like, he’s gonna be important, he’s gonna be president. He was special in terms of his honesty, his sincerity, his compassion for other people,” said Michelle.

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"Married dating" classes promise to drag you and your partner back to the days when you were tearing each other"s clothes off and conversation consisted of more than "good night" at the end of each day.

Married dating classes attempt to school you back into being old romantics by using techniques including individual discussions with a consultant, tips on how to flirt with your partner again, how to dress to impress and how to surprise your partner like you used to.

"When you"re dating, everything is new and exciting," says Elect Club"s Haley Hill, who organises couples" classes. "But when a level of security is reached, we tend to slip into our comfort zone and that initial desire we felt for each other disappears."

The rise of married dating classes comes on the back of new research which states many couples are unable to divorce because of financial restraints.

According to the study by divorce firm Law Options, 60 per cent of married people are too scared to get a divorce because of the cost and more than a third would never leave their partner because of loans and shared mortgages.

For those who find time a problem, some class organisers such as Asian Dinner Club will not only send you out to dinner after your flirt class but will find a babysitter, book you a table and even get someone to vacuum while you are out so your boudoir is ready for romance when you return.

"The hardest part is actually getting people out of the house," says director Salima Manji, whose service will organise surprise "dates" throughout a six-month period and introduce them to other married couples at networking nights.

"During that time we will help you plan any important dates like birthdays and anniversaries and get your confidence back," she says. "Also, by introducing you to other married couples you take the burden of conversation off each other – we encourage you to make new friends and spend a little time apart."

Doctor Manoj Mistry, 35, and his wife, Sam, 34, from west London signed up for the Asian Dinner Club"s married dating classes after routine and work pressures had meant they had started to take each other for granted.

"I went on a “blind date” – with my husband," says Sam. "This happened after the club had given us both a bit of a style makeover so we looked sexier. Just arriving separately made it seem exciting again, like in the days before being married when you never fully know how the night will turn out."

Manoj was less enthusiastic to begin with but was soon convinced.

"As a guy I feel the responsibility to think of romantic things to do, so it was good to have someone come up with cool places to go out in London and do the “man” part of sorting out all the bookings."

These classes are a much less serious alternative to relationship counselling, says Elect Club"s Haley Hill (pictured). In her "Passion Reviver Package" you meet a consultant as a couple, then on your own to find out what you feel is causing the relationship to stall. Then follows "tailored relationship consulting", including style and fitness advice. Fed up of his spare tyre? Has her nagging put an end to sex? Get the consultant to let each other know. The consultancy then books you a sexy weekend away.

If all else fails, you can always put a gun to their heads.

Hill says: "The most popular part of our service is the Spy School weekend – it"s hard to see your wife in the same way after you have watched her shoot a revolver and learn body combat. It provides sexy new experiences to talk about over a romantic dinner that night."

 

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To find a partner through online dating is not so easy, to date a lawyer can be much more difficult. The reason is: all lawyers are different people. Let's hear the voice of a single lawyer: I am a lawyer and I would hate for people not to date me just for my profession. That being said, if you can't handle the occassional "I'm really busy right now, can we talk later," then you may want to look to a different profession... Without doubt, all lawyer work a lot of hours. "Lawyers working 70-hour per wees don't have time for happy hours or any type of significant social life," said Elena, practicing attorney and founder of the lawyer dating website. "This can result in a high level of personal dissatisfaction." Lawyers have less time to spend on family and lovers. To help them find love more convneiently, MillionaireCupid dating network launched this lawyer dating website. With a short glance on google, we discovered that this is absolutely the first dating service which is dedicated to lawyers dating.

 

Take a short look at the features on this brand new dating site, live chat, webmail, free wink are the most frequently used tools for dating. Personal blogs, forums, albums ensure members on this site can have enough customzied content on their profiles. Photo, age, occcupation, education, income verification can make sure members on this site are real and credible. Various search tools made the search simple and easy. Dating tips on this site can be helpful to any members who are new to online dating.

 

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Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t seem to have much trouble finding a husband so why are so many women now complaining they find it almost impossible to find Mr Right?

Time and technology marches on but surely human relationships have remained the same since time began?

Well no, not really.

We only need to look to other cultures to see how different courting rituals are around the world in present days and I do believe we can learn something from arranged marriages but that’s another story.

So has it really become more difficult to find a husband in the past 50 years or have the goal posts simply moved?

Statistics in the UK show that single men outnumber single women by a considerable number, with over a million more single men than women, so why on earth are some women finding it impossible to find a husband?

Here are three reasons your Grandma found a husband but you can’t:

1. The Economy

Our Grandmothers were much more practical people, with “romantic notions” being reserved for the silver screen or a hot cocoa while you read Mills and Boon.

When it came to finding a husband they looked for a provider, a man with a steady income, clean habits and someone their mother approved of. A boring young bank clerk was considered a good catch because he could be a branch manager one day.

Dating opportunities were often limited to the Saturday night dance at the local church hall.

Likewise our Grandfathers grew up knowing they would leave school, find work and then start a family .. it’s just how life went. Playboys were rich and belonged to the upper class.

The economic boom of the eighties and early to mid nineties meant that Steve, the local estate agent, could live a cheap version of a playboys life.

He had his own “bachelor pad”, car, went clubbing every night and could sleep with as many girls as he could cope with (or would say yes) … why on earth would he want to give that up and swap it for a life of nagging and nappies?!

In short our economic situation allowed us to be far more fussy about who we chose as a life partner and therefore limited the number of potential candidates.

2. Technology

I remember my Grandma telling me about my great aunt (the family hussy because she married 4 times), as an actress she went off to Berlin and met, then married husband number three … ooo the shame of it.

For her generation the choice of men was usually limited to their own town or social circle, which limited their expectations.

For us the world is our slimy mollusc, we can now log on to the internet and in seconds be searching dating website databases with a few million members.

But surely that is good news, more people to choose from? Erm, no.

Suddenly the fella down our street seems a lot less attractive when there are chaps out there with sexy French accents or smouldering South American eyes.

So while we sit waiting for Antonio Banderas to come and serenade us Malcolm from down the road met some French tart and went to live in Paris.

We are essentially ignoring what is realistically on offer locally because we’re sure there is something far more exciting on offer in far off lands (or at least in another city).

3. Granny Held Out

My father often jokes about having spent a whole year trying to get his hand up my mothers jumper … bless him, he never managed it but wow did he have fun trying and he couldn’t wait to marry my mother to sample her delights.

Then the sexual revolution hit town and terms like ‘one night stand’ and ‘co-habitation’ entered our vocabulary.

Even my mothers generation had the sense to know you can lead a man anywhere, even to the altar, by his privates.

Just browse the internet and see how many times women ask how long they should wait until they sleep with a man (a week, a month, 3 months) …. our Grandma’s had a simple answer to this question …. until he puts a wedding ring on your finger.

Women’s liberation has given us so many choices, many our Grandmothers would never have thought of but in reality they settled for less and found it easier to find a husband.

We now want the whole nine yards and then sit back and wonder why we can’t find a husband. That doesn’t mean we should all settle for the first person to turn up and ask us on a date but perhaps we should be taking a leaf out of Grandma’s book and being a little more practical about our search for a husband.

Jealousy is often a sign that the man cares for a woman. He cherishes her and wants to protect her, that's why he becomes jealous of a few things and a few people. But what happens when those "few" things and people get more and more? That's the time that jealousy is not productive anymore.

As the woman in the relationship, you need to know some of the concrete signs that you can watch out for to determine if your millionaire match is not the "gentleman" he is setting out to be:

1. Too much determination to spend more and more time with you. This is not a bad thing, in itself. I mean, who wouldn't want to spend their time with a great woman like you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. He insists on chatting with you right after work, like if your work stops at 5, he'll be at the chatroom or email you at the exact dot. He'll ask you why you were late and who you were with, then at what time did you exactly get out of work, and how much time you spent on travel. In short, he's monitoring out your social activities. By making sure that you know he's waiting will pressure you to go back home ASAP and go online with him.

2. Too much interest with your social life. He would insist on knowing each and everyone of your friends and family members. If he sees you chatting with someone you did not introduce to him, or catches you talking with someone else, then he's get into irrational anger and demand that you tell him who you were chatting or talking to. Why does he do this? To put it simply, he's worried that you'll dump him for that "guy" on the phone or chatroom. Again, he doesn't think that he deserves to be loved, so he would always wonder why you would love him and he will be constantly afraid that you'll leave him for a better man. He would also say how each friend is a bad influence to you, and you'd do better to dump them and spend more time with him.

3. Too much involvement with what you wear. Admit it, as women, we love to make a fashion statement. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we're only meeting someone through the web cam. This is where you can usually find out first if he's possessive and/ or jealous. How? He will try to influence you and the way you dress. He will insist that you change into something else if he sees you wearing a particular set of clothes. He will insist that you can't wear certain shorts, skirts, and your jeans, and will insist that you let him know all of the outfits that you will wear. If this happens, then tell your guy gently, that you are comfortable with your clothes and you will wear what you want and he'll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he's the one who's lucky that he has you.

It is always great for women to feel loved and wanted, and a little bit of jealous actions will be an indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.

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Green Bay, US, July 1, 2009. Over 71% of women who visit websites like WealthyChats.com for a bit of fun do not see online flirting as cheating and more than 72% of men share the same opinion.
A recent survey carried out by flirting dating site, collected more than 5,400 responses from men and women who currently have a spouse or a full time partner. The fact that over 70% of both males and females answered 'No' to the question 'Would you consider flirting online as cheating?' would suggest a shift in public perception.
With the rise in popularity of introduction agencies and online dating websites came the inevitable birth of casual dating for people looking to flirt and have fun on the net, people whose aim was not to find a soulmate with a view to getting married but only to make new friends and have fun along the way. A more relaxed approach to relationships is now growing stronger.
Views on online dating have changed over the past decade and casual dating websites are now popular amongst the British. Just as many dedicate time to watching TV, playing console games and browsing the web, a great number of people are now spending time on online flirting websites. The future of online dating is yet to be decided but it is safe to say that an increasing number of British men and women, currently in a relationship, regard their online chats and flirting sessions as a fun and harmless way to spend their spare time.

June 25, 2009 will go down in history as the day an American Icon took his last breath.

As I watch the media regurgitating over and over the news of the untimely, unfortunate and very unnecessary demise of Michael Jackson, with an occasional flash to the suffering and death of Farah Fawcett, it takes me back many years to a specialized forensic school where daily we were given the challenge of "profiling" someone in the news. I can't help but profile Michael and the personality that resulted in his death. At the same time I am quite saddened; not only in sympathy with the millions of mourners, but by the depth of the real truth and the knowledge that on a much less famed scale millions will bury family and friends for the very same reason. I feel a responsibility to share truth, to give the uninformed a "heads up", a "profile" of what killed Michael Jackson. Farah's death is a whole different story for a whole different but no less important article, but Michaels passing can serve to save the lives of the millions that are on their way to join him in death because his personality is the personality of many millions. Michael won't be giving live concerts but in death he can remain an icon nevertheless…..

What really killed Michael Jackson?

The toxicology report is not yet in because Michael's autopsy is only now being scheduled, but that matters not. What matters is the knowledge that a human heart is designed to operate much longer than 50 years unless impeded in some way. We know Michael would have had the best of the best in modern medical care and heart disease would have been known and attended. I suspect a long term habit of over medication, and profiling his reclusive personality substantiates that possibility in my mind. If this is determined to be the case, which I suspect it will be, some "in the know" would say certain suicide, and although correct, many would fail to understand. Some would say Michael's blood is on the hands of the many paid and personal enablers, and they would also be right. Others would say it was modern medicine and pharmaceuticals, and yet others would declare the fault lies with society. All would be correct. In hopes of keeping the message in Michaels death from fading, providing an opportunity that I think he would take if he could, to save millions of lives, those of your friends, family and perhaps even yours, let me explain.

It all began many years ago, in fact about the beginning of time. Man has eternally searched for ways to escape from his own mind, ways to depress anxiety and ways to stimulate from the depths of depression. Ways to achieve balance between the extremism of the two. Throughout history man has searched and experimented with alcohol and virtually every form of substance in a quest for that miracle panacea to help him avoid dealing with the stress of life; a way to "feel good". We have witnessed an era when multiple thousands decided to "escape reality" by sucking down marijuana as a full time occupation. We are now in an era when many turn to illicit drugs to make it through the day. On the other side of this eternal search we have witnessed the development  of multiple mental health counseling models from Freud to fraud, which may be one and the same, and throughout these many years and developments, we have failed to find that panacea.

The 20^th century revolution in medicine ushered in a new hope and what many believed would be the "fix". When valium came along it seemed the answer to our eternal quest, but the mind has a unique way of reaching out with new symptoms at any attempt to avoid self responsibility. From valium we have gone on to develop innumerable chemicals to sedate the mind, to block the reality of our daily demons, to escape from ourselves, our daily stressors or our unhappy lives. I would like to say that believers in the Word are immune to this eternal search and intense need for a way to blunt reality, but unfortunately they suffer even greater stress for various reasons that are beyond the scope of this article to discuss. Suffice it to say that the Church is failing in its responsibility to teach the entire Word, and the congregation fails to follow the very instructions intended to keep them mentally healthy.  Believers and non-believers alike suffer the stress of being human.

I imagine we will find that Michael Jackson's untimely demise was ultimately fed by this eternal quest for a way to deal with is chronic stress, from failure to take control of his own mind and allow logic to reign over emotion. You see it is illogical (an emotional act) to abuse medication when the warnings are clear. Michael was witness to the death of Anna Nicole Smith from overdose, he was married to Elvis's daughter, he had knowledge and notice and he ignored the warning. Perhaps it was a death wish, perhaps simply addiction which is my suspicion, but we will never truly know the answer to that. He differs from Elvis, the king of rock only in the fact that he lived 8 years longer. While life for the average human is stressful, being the "King" understandably adds a few degrees of stress. Michael awoke every morning and went to sleep every night a victim of his fame, and at great mental cost which led to his physical demise. We witnessed over his last years, through the child molestation trials and financial failure, the demise of Michael Jackson. We witnessed a complete transformation from the innocence of "I'll be there" to a figure we came to know as "whacko Jacko". His personal transformation from the King of Pop to Whacko, was certainly the result of his emotional distress, perhaps from his inability to find himself in adulthood, but his death can be directly attributed to his failure to take control of that stress, and to those that enabled him.

So who really killed Michael Jackson?

Regressing for a moment to the first paragraph of this article, we discussed that fact that man has searched for a magic pill to control stress since time began. Even though we have yet to find it, human greed combined with a true desire to advance medicine have provided a deadly cocktail for those who choose to use and abuse it, but still the stress lingers waiting for us to take responsibility, to face our demons. I would first and foremost lay the blood of Michaels death on the "powers that be", on the government and States that permit the pharmaceutical companies to advertise to an unwitting public that the latest dangerous chemical is the answer to all problems, and to lavish rewards on the doctors for prescribing them. This greed for the almighty dollar with carefully orchestrated advertising has turned the American people into a nation of Sheople, looking to medicine to solve all their problems, never mind personal responsibility.

Next I would have to lay Michaels blood on those who enabled him, they too acted out of greed. The high paid medical "professionals" knew the dangers, they knew right from wrong but they didn't just say no. Lastly, I would have to submit that none of this would have mattered and Michael would likely be alive today if he had taken responsibility for managing his stress without chemicals.

Michael paid the ultimate price because the government chooses to ignore the millions that perish from dangerous drugs, in favor of pursuing those that offer natural solutions, those that threaten drug profits. He paid the ultimate price because of the greed of pharmaceutical companies that work to convince that dangerous drugs are the first choice for all human ills, and due to the irresponsibility and greed of the very enablers that he undoubtedly paid very well to help him kill himself. Michaels death was by his own hand, facilitated by a very broken society. Michael has been exonerated, he has paid the ultimate price for irresponsibility. If we are to cast blame on his enablers, let us cast it fairly and levy charges against all the above.

And the Sheople will continue to perish

I offer these thoughts for the many millions that feel they cannot make it through the day without drugs to blunt reality, and mostly for the few that might read and choose not to perish due to their own irresponsibility. As long as we remain a nation of followers, believing in science to deliver us from self responsibility, we will continue to perish unnecessarily. The medication promised to deliver us, only dilates brains, suppresses logic and converts the masses into a writhing, squirming mass of emotion, a volatile recipe for disaster. Half of our cars are driven by medicated drivers and we have road rage, we have adults walking into schools slaughtering the innocent. Half of our families are medicated and we have mass family dysfunction, turning out dysfunctional children into a dysfunctional medicated world. For believers, we see in Genesis what happens when we subrogate logic to emotion; it was certainly not a logical act that started the downward spiral in which we find humanity today, and it is the failure to walk in logic that continues to destroy millions. It is not logical to strap a bomb to a child and send him into a crowd to die, it is not logical to believe this is what God desires for the children he created. Remember Michael, and remember the dangers lurking beneath the high priced pharmaceutical ad's, these chemicals do little more than destroy logic. If you are one of the millions that are crying one minute and a raving lunatic the next, change your diet, stop with sugar free chemicals and processed junk, and eat wholesome natural foods. Your hormones will balance as will your temperament. Help those you care about to seek help in dealing with stress and to cast off the daily medications. Stop setting a medicated example for your children and teach them logic and self responsibility, for you are setting them on the path for the rest of their life. Find safe, natural methods of dealing with your stress before it deals you that last hand. Remember that stress is a "state of mind" and that state can be changed by you, or you can allow it to consume you, that is a choice. Remember that your past does not dictate your future, how you handled the stress of life yesterday does not dictate the manner in which you have to deal with it tomorrow. Realize that even though chemicals may be helpful at times, long term use is what happened to Michael and don't let that happen to you. If you suffer chronic pain and you were not "hit by a truck", it is probably just stress and it is probably in your best interest to stay away from the doctor who has only medication to offer. Let logic reign, if you cannot avoid influence by slick television ad's promising to take all your problems away, drop kick the sucker out the back door and grab a good book on nutrition, better yet grab a Bible and look for instructions….

Remember Michael, he either passed from us leaving only his music, or in death he can remain an icon to set millions of sheople free from slick drug advertisements and the resulting drug dependency. Which will he be to you?

Reference: Dr. Eric Carter holds a　PhD in behavioral psychology, and multiple awards, certificates and diplomas in alternative medicine modalities. He currently serves as the President of the World Organization of Natural Medicine Practitioners

 

The trend of many urban female Chinese has within the past several years manifested a preference to wait it out for "Mr. Right" to arrive and not subscribe to the age honored tradition of early marriage and children in order to meet parental and social expectations. What are all these Chinese women doing with their time and how are they expending their feminine energy and traditional nesting instinct if not in pursuit of Chinese men? At least one source seems to have the answer to this social phenomenon and apparent Westernization of Chinese women. seekwealthy.com, a fast growing online resource for Western men wanting to connect with Asian women for friendship and marriage, has recently seen a significant spike in registration from ladies in major Chinese cities…Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.

Western men have long considered Asian women ideal companions and superlative wives because of their unique appeal and traditional values. Now the sense of admiration seems to be returned as Chinese women are joining virtual communities and marriage websites in droves in their pursuit of Mr. Right in the form of a Western male.

Statistics from seekwealthy.com seem to support the fact that even though Chinese women may be prone to selectivity when choosing a mate, many seem to prefer the company of Western men as evidenced by the increasing number of Chinese women actively seeking love and romance online from the West. Embracing Western men and values has been a trend among women in China for the past decade at least. This follows a development that combines traditional Asian values with a movement towards Westernization for the 456 million Chinese women of marriage age, outnumbered by a mere 3% or just over 16 million males. According to a recent American study, 45.3 percent of Chinese women oppose giving up a career for a family life, 72 percent of female executives believe being a 'career lady' does not contradict being a 'family woman, 51 percent of female professionals believe they can balance their careers and their family lives and 88 percent of consider themselves good in handling their personal relationships

The adaptation of these Western values mixed with solid traditional beliefs creates a profound and very attractive package for a Western man seeking compatibility with an Asian woman and vice versa. In the end it could be the dawn of a brave new cross-cultural world.

The popular dating website Match.com is facing a class-action lawsuit brought by some of its members.

The members claim the service deceives them by allowing people to post profiles even though they're not paying members and can't read or respond to personal messages.

A customer from New York said that practice brought him "humiliation and disappointment," because he contacted members and assumed they weren't interested in him when they didn't respond.  In fact, the lawsuit suggests, they were never aware he contacted them in the first place.

I saw an interesting article on CNN today entitled "The downside of online dating".  In it, the writer discusses all the ways that online dating brings out the darker side of people.

For example:

• People will veto potential dates for very shallow reasons.  You wanted a guy who was over 6 feet and this one is perfect, but  5'10".  VETO!
• Some folks want instant gratification - WHAM! ROMANCE! - and if they don't get it, they disappear into the online mist, never to emerge again.
• Stalking an ex online is becoming more and more commonplace, including stalking their online dating profile.

What about you?  Does online dating bring out your nasty, mean, picky side?  Or are you willing to give people a chance online? As to me, I had a lucky dating experiences through the millionaire dating and wealthy men dating club wealthychats.com. He is a real millionaire! I can't never imagine that without online dating.

 

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, right can work. womanliness are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that lassie has been chatting harbour online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to act for careful to the extreme. That's not only acute but vital. So what's a superb chap to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for "the" girl due to you.

You must be kind. Don't press her for especial information be pleased her real offer or where butterfly lives. Keep your conversations dazzling further fun until chick feels affluent talking shield you online. Don't try to response her into meeting face-to-face. She leaves think you are desperate or a pervert.

A good relationship has never been, besides will never be, built on lies and fib. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and professional you are funnel at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand speaking. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn't just concede your head.

Once the debate has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the beyond compare time, innervate that you hang around fame a very public place, during daylight hours besides that she bring a individual with her. hard by all, you have nothing to hide. You've told her the truth about yourself and she has existent observed a shooting match of pictures of you. The only involvement left is to make her sensation safe meeting you. Click here if you need this info about modest wedding gowns.

Ask the Right Questions First. OK. You accredit joined a couple of dating services again written a killer articulation. You've uploaded a good picture and for you are going to chat with a perspicacity. What now? How earn you start disjoining those who have real potential and those who don't have any potential at all? You aspiration to jewel exterior front-page about who this oracular woman purely is besides not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would show bewitching if manliness wore labels rejoice in "Gold Digger" or "Daddy's girl" on the wealthy men and millionaire dating website….but they don't so it's unraveling to you to find these things out and you can't good ask direct questions. You need to cognize what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this woman if you decide you wanting to negotiate that.

Meeting you are past the initial small talk, ask her, "What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?" Listen carefully to her answers. She's going to image you a cartel about herself and her views on men predominance general.

Next you should ask her, "What do you really lap up about online dating?" Now she will tell you if she has had any ace experiences dating o line further support you to avoid making the same things wrong.

"What caused the cleft advance in your make headway relationship?" If she puts all the concern on the guy, you should run-of-the-mill affect on to the next prospect. If she takes all the obstruction herself, you should probably manage the same. If she says the breakup was by requited consent or that the relationship just wasn't right thanks to either of them, you've heard the right answer. Move heroic but always with doing.

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Troubled actress-singer Lindsay Lohan is looking for a lover who does not mind her alleged alcoholism or other repelling habits, she revealed in a mock Internet dating profile.

Lohan, whose recent breakup with her lesbian partner Samantha Ronson has been covered by the media, stars in a dating profile posted online Monday on the celebrity and millionaire dating site Millionaire Cupid, reports the China Daily online.

"I would define my personality as creative, a bit of a night owl, I'm a workaholic, a shopaholic and according to the state of California, an alcoholic as well as a threat to all security guards if they work at hotels," she said.

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Many women who are facing the reality of divorce, especially after years of suffering through a terrible relationship, are sometimes eager to pick up the pieces and find someone else to fill that hole of loneliness and despair. Those women often find themselves asking the question, "Can I date while going through a divorce?"

Use Common Sense and Discretion

The reality of the dating world is that you can't really control where and when you'll meet someone and fall in love. However, you can control the circumstances that you place yourself in where the likelihood of meeting someone is far higher. Most people do end up dating after a divorce, and many start dating before the divorce is final. The real question, when it comes to what will have an effect on the divorce proceedings, isn't so much whether you are dating someone, but how long after the divorce proceedings started did you start dating again? The answer to that question could unduly influence the divorce judge's rulings. So the real question should actually be, how long after divorce proceedings start can I date while going through a divorce?

Can I Date While Going Through a Divorce – How Soon is Too Soon?

The fact of the matter is that many women today who get divorced come to realize that they don't like the modern marriage where so much income is expected of them. Women, throughout the 1980s, struggled to enter the workforce so that they could build up an income and contribute to the household finances. Unfortunately, what happened is that the "latch-key kid" became a modern household term – where kids came home from school and returned to an empty home and microwaveable meal.

Women are realizing, in greater and greater numbers, that the successful and wealthy man of the 1940s and 1950s was a luxury that is missed. As early as the 1800s, the success of a man was measured in how well he could support his wife and kids financially, and the measure of a woman was her child caring and household skills, and sometimes simply just her beauty. Back then many a man would submit his entire estate for the chance to marry a beautiful woman.

Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Dating Takes You Back in Time

So what happens when you're divorcing one type of man, and you want to find and marry a wealthy man who believes in those old-fashioned principles? The truth is that you can start the dating process immediately by visiting websites that cater to this sort of lifestyle: wealthychats.com, seekwealthy.com, sugardaddie.com, just name a few. While you're progressing through your divorce, you can simply browse through the profiles of many wealthy men who are looking for beautiful women to marry – women who want to be spoiled, pampered, and cared for. In return, all these men ask for is for love, companionship and to be pampered with affection in return. For most women who lived in the 1800's, it's a relationship made in heaven.  Because of today's culture, these men are in very great supply, and the women who they hope to make happy, financially, are too busy working 9 to 5 jobs at the office.

Go Ahead and Look, and Date When the Divorce is Final

The great thing about these websites is that you can take your time and browse through the profiles, and contact these men via private email. Start a dialog and get to know them – it's not officially dating until you actually date. While you're getting divorced, this is the safest way to find the sort of man that you would like to replace the loser that you're getting divorced from – the guy who would never let you go shopping or spend a dime. Then, finally, when the divorce is final, set up a date with the men who you've ranked at the top of your list – and in a very short time, you'll feel like the princess that you've always deserved to feel like.

 

One of the most intimidating situations in a man's life is this:

He sees a BEAUTIFUL woman that he would LOVE to talk to. Maybe they're at a bar, or at the gym, or on a street corner. (It could be anywhere.)

He thinks to himself, "Wow…if I had a girlfriend who looked like THAT, I'd be be the happiest man on earth…"

And yet, 99% of the time, he WON'T walk up and talk to her. He will keep his thoughts to himself, and he'll allow the opportunity to slip through his fingers.

That gorgeous woman COULD have been his next lover…or girlfriend…or even his wife!

So, do you ever feel a little bit anxious when you see a cute girl you want to talk to, but you're not quite sure how to make your approach?

You're worried you might say something stupid, or that she'll KNOW that you're trying to hit

on her…so you figure it's better if you don't approach at all.

(Then, you kick yourself in the ass for wussying out…because as we all know, "he who hesitates, masturbates"…)

Well, I came across a book called THE ART OF APPROACHING that breaks down and analyzes the BEST ways to approach women and start cool conversations. Here are some of the topics it covers:

* The single most important factor to control if you ever want to have a romantic encounter

with the woman of your dreams. Blow this one strategic step, and say good bye to her forever…

* Discover WHY beautiful women wind up with an "average Joe"… and how you can exploit the answer to get the girl you want.

* One simple yet extremely effective standing posture that women swoon over! It's effective

and grossly underused BUT if you know it… you'll position yourself as a desirable guy (even if you have the looks only a mother can love).

 * Uncover the 6 dead giveaways that reveal IF a woman is interested! Most men don't have

a clue… and women are dying for you to figure out because "society" tells them to play "hard to get."

 * 5 very common tell-tale signs that expose her interest in you! They're so subtle (but

easy to catch once you know) that if you don't know what they are… YOU could be passing up a life of joy because you couldn't read the signs!

* The Golden Rule of how to get girls that maximizes your chances of finally getting

the hottie you want. It's IMPORTANT and almost every guy ignores it — yet this one fact

alone would break down the barriers that have kept you locked out of your dreams!

* 4 surefire ways to KNOW if the girl you're eyeing is eyeing you back! And the one thing

you can do IF you missed the subtle signs women drop… especially when you're not looking!

* The single most important thing you must develop BEFORE you can enjoy the benefits of meeting and enjoying women.

* How to quickly and easily avoid "psyching" yourself out of approaching your "choice."

It works… and it works fast — but ONLY if you are really ready to get your girl.

* How to overcome the self-defeating behavior that gives the "scent" of insecurity! This

is the number one turn off to women… DON'T make this mistake!

* 5 counter-productive actions that RUIN your opportunity to get the girl you want! Then

these same "attraction killers" move on to destroy the remainder of your life!

* How to eliminate 5 destructive habits you can't ignore IF you want to meet the women

of your dreams. They're UGLY… UNATTRACTIVE… and reek of FAILURE (a sure-fire way to turn a woman off!)

Then, this book get VERY SPECIFIC and gives you a huge number of interesting, clever openers. (These openers do NOT sound like pickup lines…they all feel very casual and natural.)

They include:

* Advice opener — How to use a certain subject matter to covertly force a woman to admire you.

* Compliment opener — The oldest and simultaneously most MISUSED opener known to man. If you do this one wrong… forget it (you'll want to pick up another jar of Vaseline!)

 * Direct openers — The most DANGEROUS (because it's the easiest for her to reject) yet if pulled off right — is very EFFECTIVE!

* Drama opener — A simple and powerful technique when done correctly. You'll captivate her mind and she'll hang on your every word… if done right! (Fully detailed in the book.)

* Insult opener — This technique is psychological warfare at its heights! But don't make the mistake of walking up to someone and start slinging the "B" word around and think you'll get a date (it's much more subtle, but can knock a woman off her high horse!)

 * Joke opener — The most difficult technique …which makes it the most powerful. Why? Because IF you know how to make her laugh… you've got her right where you want her. BUT if you don't… you'll be cold another night!

* Online openers — The internet is TOO popular to dismiss. Don't think "cyber-lines" with a smiley face will cut it. However there ARE tried and true techniques!

* Role-play opener — Understand HOW and WHY this works, and you've built an immediate bridge between you and your desires! And your target will enjoy every minute of it.

* Situational openers - Quick — Powerful — Explosive… The 3 elements of this technique. Improvise in ANY situation, any time, and she's sure to be yours!

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Think Millionaire Dating is out of your league? Dont you believe it. Millions of people just like you are already putting themselves in the same dating arena as the rich and beautiful. The first thing you need to do is find the millionaires. There are sites online that allow you to communicate with the wealthy for the purpose of dating. Make sure that the site you choose screens its rich applicants. That way, youll know that youre talking to a bonafied millionaire. Once youve chosen a trustworthy site, you are going to want to do an excellent job on creating your profile. Its what will set you apart from the rest. Make it real and interesting. If you have specific beliefs or interests that are important to you, then make sure you mention them. Its the best way to stay true to yourself and to attract like minds. Dont be shy about uploading photos. They will help you to appear open and friendly, and they will reveal some more of your personality. Try to include some action shots of things youre into. If you like participating in sports, for example, have someone take a picture of you engaged in your favourite. Then share it with potential dates by posting it on your profile. Just make sure there is nothing in the photo that will help identify you or where you live or work. Your wording needs to be great, too. Use descriptive sentences, rather than flat ones. Instead of saying that you like water, perhaps mention that listening to the loons while sitting around a northern lake makes you feel peaceful. You get the idea. Draw your readers into your experience. Theyll want to know more and contact you. From that point on, you can relax and begin your date search from the comfort and safety of your own home. Thats all there is to it. Still think that millionaire dating is out of your league?

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Hackers and Scammers are on all internet sites, but they particularly target adult dating sites. Scammers know that horniness can overpower better judgment; sex sells. The promise of a casual tryst or readymade affair is enticing to most people, and shopping for a hookup online makes finding a partner twice as easy. Hookup site users are more likely to engage in unsafe internet practices; when you want a hookup you want it now. So rather than taking the slow and safe route, users send out their email or phone number without reservations.

Let's say you receive the following email on an adult dating site:

"Hi, I'm Alice. I'm really close to you and am looking for a nice man to have no strings sex with. I'm never on this site, so please email me at hottie4u2boff@spammer.com. I can't wait to share you with my girlfriends!"

It's possible that she's for real, but it's more likely that she's a spammer looking to collect email addresses. Why would anyone want your email address? Let's say that the spammer in question is someone who works on a scam farm. Scammer farms typically employ many people (often young boys) who get paid to create profiles of hot women, and work online all day sending out emails like the one above. You respond by emailing her as instructed, and the spam farm collects those emails and pays their employee a small amount for each email address. They collect as many email addresses as possible, and sell each one to many different spam lists. Now, your email address is being sold to multiple sources; the spam farm makes a lot of money, and you will never hear from hottie4u2boff again… but can expect a sudden influx in spam about replica watches and penis enlargement creams.

Social Networking and dating sites are also seeing a surge in hacked accounts these days. You sign up for a site, and hackers are lying in wait. Within a few days of joining, you get a message via IM that says: "Thanks for joining! As a free bonus, log in here for access to hot cam shows for gold and silver members only!"

It looks just like the rest of the site, and when you click on it, it asks for your email and to log in…again. You enter your information, and suddenly you're on a new, unrelated webcam page that asks you to join. And pay.

Why would they want your adult dating site account? Remember the message above that read "hey, I'm never on here, get me at hottie4u2boff@spammer.com?" Well, sites that allow free accounts limit the number of emails that free accounts can send out per day, and scammers are the reason. But your gold account can send out unlimited emails, so they can contact hundreds of other members by hijacking and utilizing your account. They take down your personal information, upload their hot scammer pics and fire away at other members until they're reported and shut down.

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GRADUATE Natalie Gohl only dates men who earn over 1,000,000 a year and thinks money can make a big difference to your sex life.

She says: he most incredible sex I ever had was in a suite in one of the poshest hotels in London's Park Lane.

He drank pink champagne and ate strawberries before retiring to the king-sized bed together.

Obviously that's better than being in bed with a guy in a grotty flat. I don't think money makes a man more knowledgable about how to please a woman between the sheets. I admit I've also had good sex with men who didn't have loads of money. But when I'm with a wealthy lover I'm not worried or stressed about my bank balance and that's why the sex is so much better.

Attraction is what improves your sex life — and I'm attracted to guys with cash.

These days Natalie rarely dates men who aren't worth a fortune. 'I never fake it. I'm not a prostitute' ... Natalie Gohl only dates rich men and wealthy singles.

She says: the first time I went on a date with a rich man it was like a different world and there was no going back. My friend had a wealthy boyfriend so she set me up with his friend. He went to Posh's favourite restaurant, Nobu, in Park Lane. He was a lot older than me so I was a bit shocked when I first saw him but I soon forgot about his age when he started ordering the most expensive things on the menu.

After dinner he collected his convertible sports car from his million flat near Sloane Square and we went to a private members' club where we drank champagne all night. I didn't fancy him but I quickly realised that unless I had a rich boyfriend I would never have a luxury lifestyle like that — so I decided to make it happen.

Natalie, from Whitechapel in East London, met men on websites for women wanting wealthy lovers and was quickly overwhelmed with requests for dates from rich guys. She says: I never feel exploited. I might date a lot of men with money but I have to be genuinely attracted to them to get involved romantically. That's why I just keep myself on the wealthy men or millionaires dating site just like wealthychats.com, seekwealthy.com, millionairecupid.com, SeekingMillionaire.com, etc.

I think women who fake it with rich men just to get presents and a nice life aren't much different to prostitutes — but I can't fake it. I've been on more than 50 dates with men who know that I'm only dating them because they have money. "But as well as being loaded, I want a man who is successful, ambitious and generous and prepared to treat me like a lady. I've been taken for dinner at The Ivy in London, had presents like a Louis Vuitton bag and expensive designer lingerie — and even been flown first class on holidays to Spain and New York.

And if a guy is willing to fly you across the world just to take you out to dinner and give you great gifts, of course it helps put you in the mood.

Great sex comes down to chemistry and having a connection with a man and I find wealth and knowledge a huge turn-on. At the moment I'm seeing a few different blokes who are all at least 20 years older than me. "Once I decide who I prefer, I would like to have a more serious relationship with one of them. Love hasn't come into it yet. Years ago, my ex-boyfriend had no money and always expected me to pay, so I have dated normal men in the past.

But now I'm used to being spoilt it would be impossible to go back to that. I'll never settle down with a poor man.

Who wouldn't want to date a millionaire at least once if he or she had the chance? With a website like MillionaireCupid.com, you do have that chance. It doesn't really matter why you would initially be intrigued by the idea of dating a millionaire, whether it's the money, the power, or simply the novelty. With a website created specifically for millionaire dating, there's no pretense because the millionaire's financial status is known up front. With that already out on the table, you both then have the open opportunity to go out on a date, just enjoy each other's company, and find out how well you click.